7 Dangerous Reasons to Get Married and what to do while you wait by Pastor Daniel Olawande

Bae and Boo part 2

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7 Dangerous Reasons to get married by Daniel Olawande

1. Don’t marry because of his or her money- It is good that your spouse can take care of you and you have a good life but do not marry ALONE because of his/her money, he/she is not your ATM MACHINE

2. Do not marry who you don’t like or attracted to and call it THE WILL OF GOD- Dont get it twisted oo, do not use will of God to scam us and say she is not attractive to you but you have to marry her because she is the will of God, THE WILL OF GOD WILL BE ATTRACTIVE TO YOU OO, IT MIGHT NOT BE TOTAL AT THE BEGINNING, BUT BEFORE YOU GO TO THE ALTAR ENSURE THE LORD DO A WORK IN YOUR HEART AND ENSURE YOU LIKE HER AND YOU ARE DYING FOR HER AS YOU SEE HER OR HIM OO

Many people will say, if it is not the will of God, I would not have married you,

Please don’t lie on the will of God oo

The will of God is good and sweet (although you might see it as you yield) it might not be physical as it were but you will see the point of attraction and that thing will be doing you giz giz

If there is no giz giz before you go to the altar, yeee you will struggle small oo

Something must attract you, something must be sweeting your heart, something must be doing you o

If you are just normal abeg pause until something is doing you before you go to the altar if not you may edure gbas gbos later oo

3. Do not marry out of pity: Dont allow someone marry you because of emotional appeal, He won’t survive without me, she will die if I don’t marry her, please oo, If God says no, don’t be moved, pls just follow God, Don’t allow a brother use his tongues or Rhema tie you down, be led of the Spirit not of pity, Allow God guide you, know exactly what you want as revealed by the Holy Ghost.

4. Don’t marry someone who doesn’t believe in your calling or standards or spiritual tribe- My greatest blessing in life is that @nifemidolawande my babe believes in this our Fire something o, Kai she is fire herself. 

When I met her, she said her passion is to set ladies on fire for God.

5. DON’T MARRY UNDER PRESSURE OF I AM GETTING OLD

– You can’t use age to harass God oo, God is the ancient of days, don’t be under pressure because of age,God is very much interested in your life, to remain single is far better than rushing and marrying wrong.

The irony of life is that some people are married but they are praying to be single while some people are single now, but they want to kill themselves to be married and they end up marrying wrong.

Don’t be agitated, calm down, one major cause for mistakes in marriage is unnecessary agitation, please don’t be under pressure. FARABALE

I know pressure can be coming from parents and friends but please don’t put yourself under any form of pressure, allow God to work in and through you. God will make all things beautiful in His time

May I announce you, this year is your year in the name of Jesus.

WHAT TO DO WHILE WAITING.

1. Be busy doing something tangible and worthwhile with your life while you are waiting on God. Improve and develop yourself.

2. Do not give room for depression, ensure you are always excited, always smiling and anticipate for a good marriage.

3. Pray for a good marriage always, have a vision of your dream Family and behold it constantly, you become what you behold.

4. Have a marriage and family role model, always visit them, pray for them and serve them, grace can be transferred.

5. Get books on marriage and relationships, prepare yourself towards it, we don’t get prepared in marriage, we prepare for marriage.

6. Avoid friends that will make you feel bad and walk with people that will be of encouragement to you, not those who will demoralize you.

7. Attend and be active at programs,conference, hangouts, church meetings, who knows you might meet your spouse there.

8. Dress well, smell well, talk well, some ladies are beautiful until they open their mouth to talk.

9. Learn to use social media well and  be responsible, build character and virtue, beauty might attract but character keeps.

10. Build capacity, marriage is men and women not boys and girls.

I hope you are encouraged

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Read: How to Marry your kind by Daniel Olawande

Read: Phos Doxa : Nifemi and Daniel Olawande love story 

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