10 Ways To Avoid Wedding Planning Drama as a Nigerian Couple

Planning a wedding can be one of the most exciting and joyful experiences for a couple, especially in the vibrant and diverse cultural landscape of Nigeria. However, it’s no secret that wedding planning can also bring its fair share of stress and drama.
I remember my wedding planning period back in 2015 and boy! Just the thought of it brings back memories of the stress, the back and forth arguments on who handles what on that day! I wrote this to ensure a smooth and joyful journey for your own big day, here are ten smart ways to navigate wedding planning without unnecessary drama.

1. Open Communication

Start your wedding planning journey with open and honest communication. Share your visions, preferences, and expectations openly with each other, and most importantly, listen to one another. It’s vital to be on the same page with your partner from the very beginning.

2. Set a Realistic Budget

Discuss and agree upon a realistic budget for your wedding. Finances are a common source of tension during wedding planning. Ensure that your expectations align with your financial capacity and be willing to compromise and prioritize accordingly. No do pass yourself!

3. Delegate Responsibilities

Delegate tasks based on each other’s strengths and interests. Whether it’s choosing the venue, picking the menu, or organizing the entertainment, divide the responsibilities to ease the burden and prevent conflicts over decision-making. Everything doesn’t have to involve you two, delegate to your siblings and trusted friends or family members.

4. Respect Family Opinions

In our Nigerian culture, family plays a significant role in weddings. Respectfully consider their opinions and involve them in discussions. Show gratitude for their input while gently asserting your preferences to strike a balance that honors traditions and respects your choices.

5. Schedule Regular Check-ins

Set aside specific times to discuss wedding plans, ensuring that both of you are updated on the progress and potential challenges. Regular check-ins will help prevent last-minute surprises and allow for necessary adjustments.

6. Plan Fun Dates

Amidst the wedding planning hustle, remember to have fun as a couple. Plan regular dates where wedding talk is off-limits. This will rejuvenate your relationship and remind you both of the love that brought you to this exciting point in your lives.

7. Practice Patience and Compromise

Wedding planning involves compromise. Be patient and understanding when disagreements arise. Both of you will need to give and take to reach decisions that are fair and satisfactory for both parties and families as well.

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8. Prioritize Self-Care

Take care of yourselves physically and emotionally. Wedding planning can be overwhelming, so make time for self-care, whether it’s going for a walk, reading a book, or indulging in a spa day. A healthy and relaxed couple makes better decisions.

9. Celebrate Milestones

Acknowledge and celebrate the milestones you achieve in the planning process. Whether it’s booking the venue or finalizing the guest list, take a moment to cherish each accomplishment together.

10. Remember the Purpose

Lastly, always remind yourselves of the purpose of the wedding: to celebrate your love and commitment. Keep the love and excitement at the forefront of your minds, and let it guide your decisions throughout the planning process.

In conclusion, wedding planning in Nigeria, like anywhere else, can be both thrilling and challenging. By maintaining open communication, respecting each other’s opinions, and celebrating the love that brought you together, you can navigate this journey joyfully and create the perfect start to your happily ever after. Happy planning!